TL;DR
UK surrogacy law and finance: the parental order process, the prohibition on commercial surrogacy, the typical reasonable expenses paid to the surrogate, and the parental leave rights of intended parents.
Key facts
- UK law prohibits commercial surrogacy; only reasonable expenses can be paid to the surrogate.
- The surrogate is the legal mother at birth, regardless of biological origin.
- Intended parents obtain legal parenthood via a Parental Order under the Human Fertilisation and Embryology Act 2008.
- Parental Order applications must be made within 6 months of the child's birth.
- Intended parents are entitled to Statutory Parental Leave for surrogacy and Statutory Adoption Pay if eligible.
- UK surrogacy operates under the Human Fertilisation and Embryology Act 2008, which sets out the Parental Order process.
- Surrogacy Arrangements Act 1985 prohibits commercial surrogacy in the UK.
- Reasonable expenses for surrogates typically include medical costs, travel, maternity wear, and lost earnings; figures of GBP 12,000 to GBP 20,000 are commonly cited as 'reasonable'.
- The Law Commission published recommendations for surrogacy law reform in 2023; implementation is pending as of 2026.
UK surrogacy is legal but heavily regulated. Commercial surrogacy is prohibited; only reasonable expenses can be paid to the surrogate. Legal parenthood is transferred from the surrogate to the intended parents via a Parental Order. This article covers the legal framework and the financial considerations.
Legal status at birth
Under UK law, the surrogate is the legal mother of the child at birth, regardless of the biological origin. If the surrogate is married, her spouse is typically the legal father. The intended parents need a Parental Order to become the legal parents.
Parental Order process
Application for a Parental Order is made under the Human Fertilisation and Embryology Act 2008. The application must be made within 6 months of the birth, with both intended parents (or sole intended parent) agreeing. The court considers the welfare of the child as the paramount consideration.
Expenses and the commercial prohibition
Commercial surrogacy is prohibited in the UK. Only reasonable expenses can be paid to the surrogate, typically covering medical costs, travel, maternity wear, lost earnings, and similar pregnancy-related costs. The court considers the expenses when granting the Parental Order.
International surrogacy
Some intended parents pursue surrogacy abroad. The child's UK status and the route to legal parenthood depend on the destination country's law and the UK's recognition rules. Specialist legal advice is essential for international surrogacy because the routes are complex.
Parental leave and pay
Intended parents can take Statutory Parental Leave for surrogacy (the equivalent of adoption leave) and Statutory Adoption Pay if eligible. The other intended parent can take Statutory Paternity Pay. Eligibility tests mirror the standard SAP and SPP criteria.
Legal status at birth in detail
Under UK law, the surrogate is the legal mother of the child at birth, regardless of the biological origin. This applies even where the egg and sperm came from the intended parents (rather than the surrogate). The legal mother concept follows the woman who gives birth to the child.
If the surrogate is married or in a civil partnership at the time of conception (not just at the time of birth), her spouse or civil partner is typically the legal father (or second parent for same-sex couples) of the child. This applies unless they did not consent to the surrogacy arrangement.
If the surrogate is unmarried, the legal father depends on whether the biological father is the intended father (who can sometimes be named on the birth certificate) or sperm donor (who has no legal status). The detailed rules are complex and depend on the specific circumstances.
The intended parents have no automatic legal status as parents at birth. They acquire legal parenthood through the Parental Order process, which transfers the legal parenthood from the surrogate (and her partner if applicable) to the intended parents.
The legal status at birth has practical implications. The surrogate is legally entitled to refuse to hand over the child after birth; this is rare but the legal position protects her right to do so. The intended parents have no enforceable contractual right to the child until the Parental Order is granted.
Parental Order process in detail
Application for a Parental Order is made under the Human Fertilisation and Embryology Act 2008. The application must be made within 6 months of the birth, with both intended parents (or sole intended parent) agreeing. The application is to the family court; the court considers the welfare of the child as the paramount consideration.
To be eligible for a Parental Order: at least one intended parent must be genetically related to the child (so an embryo using donor egg and donor sperm typically does not qualify); the surrogate must consent (after the child is born and at least 6 weeks have passed); reasonable expenses only must have been paid; the intended parents must be habitually resident in the UK.
The court considers the welfare of the child throughout the application. A Cafcass (Children and Family Court Advisory and Support Service) officer is appointed as parental order reporter to investigate and report to the court. The reporter typically interviews the intended parents, the surrogate, and considers the child's welfare.
The Parental Order, once granted, extinguishes the legal parenthood of the surrogate (and any other legal parent at birth) and creates legal parenthood for the intended parents. A new birth certificate is issued naming the intended parents.
The typical timeline from birth to Parental Order is 6 to 12 months. Specialist family lawyers handle the application; the typical legal cost is GBP 3,000 to GBP 10,000+ depending on complexity. Where surrogacy is straightforward, the order is typically granted; where issues arise (such as international surrogacy with commercial elements), the court has discretion.
Expenses and the commercial prohibition
Commercial surrogacy is prohibited in the UK under the Surrogacy Arrangements Act 1985. Only reasonable expenses can be paid to the surrogate, typically covering medical costs, travel, maternity wear, lost earnings, and similar pregnancy-related costs.
The court considers the expenses when granting the Parental Order; the court can authorise expenses above 'reasonable' in some circumstances if granting the Parental Order is in the child's welfare interest. In practice, the court has authorised substantial expense payments in many cases.
Common reasonable expense categories: medical and pregnancy-related costs (often covered by NHS but may include private fees); travel to medical appointments; maternity wear; food and additional household costs; loss of earnings during pregnancy and recovery; childcare costs for the surrogate's existing children during appointments; recuperation period after birth.
Total expenses for UK surrogacy typically run GBP 12,000 to GBP 20,000 depending on the surrogate's specific circumstances and any agreed compensation framework. Some surrogacy agreements include amounts that some commentators consider above 'reasonable'; the court typically authorises these in the child's interest.
The Law Commission's 2023 reform recommendations would clarify the distinction between expenses and commercial payment, allowing more transparent and predictable arrangements. Implementation is pending as of 2026.
International surrogacy in detail
Some intended parents pursue surrogacy abroad in countries with established commercial surrogacy markets such as the United States, Canada, Mexico, Ukraine (pre-conflict), and Georgia. The choice is often driven by certainty of the legal process, access to specific arrangements, and the relative cost.
The child's UK status depends on the destination country's law and the UK's recognition rules. Children born to UK intended parents abroad may be British by descent if at least one intended parent is British otherwise than by descent and the genetic relationship is established. The route to legal parenthood in the UK still typically requires a Parental Order from the UK court.
Bringing the child to the UK requires immigration arrangements. The British embassy in the destination country can issue a British passport for the child if British citizenship has been established; otherwise, the child may need a visa to enter the UK. The intended parents need to plan the immigration aspect alongside the surrogacy itself.
The Parental Order process requires the surrogate's consent, given after the birth and at least 6 weeks later. For international surrogacies, ensuring the surrogate's continued participation and consent through this period requires careful planning. Some destination countries have processes that complete the legal parenthood transfer locally without a UK Parental Order being needed; in these cases, recognition in the UK is via the immigration route.
Specialist legal advice for international surrogacy is essential because the routes are complex and the legal landscape varies by country. Costs are typically higher than UK surrogacy because of travel, accommodation, and the local agency or clinic costs.
Parental leave and pay for surrogacy
Intended parents can take Statutory Parental Leave for surrogacy (the equivalent of adoption leave) and Statutory Adoption Pay if eligible. The other intended parent can take Statutory Paternity Pay. Eligibility tests mirror the standard SAP and SPP criteria including 26 weeks of continuous service with the employer.
The leave starts from a defined point related to the birth of the child. The detailed rules are in the Children and Families Act 2014 regulations on surrogacy parental leave; the framework treats surrogacy intended parents similarly to adopters for leave purposes.
The notification to the employer requires evidence of the surrogacy arrangement; this includes evidence that the intended parents will apply for a Parental Order. The employer needs the notification by the qualifying point (similar to adoption matching).
Some employers have specific surrogacy support policies in addition to the statutory framework. These can include enhanced pay, additional leave, and flexibility around the immigration and legal processes. Discussing with HR before starting the surrogacy process can clarify the available support.
For international surrogacy, the leave may start earlier than for UK surrogacy because of the time needed to collect the child from the destination country. Some employers approve additional unpaid leave or sabbatical to cover this period; the statutory framework provides the baseline.
Disclaimer
This article provides general information based on rules and figures published by UK government and regulator sources as of May 2026. It is not personal financial, legal, immigration or tax advice. Rules, fees and figures change and individual circumstances vary. Readers should check primary sources or consult a qualified, regulated adviser before acting on any information here.
Frequently asked questions
Is surrogacy legal in the UK?
Surrogacy is legal but commercial surrogacy (paying more than reasonable expenses) is prohibited. The legal framework supports altruistic surrogacy where the surrogate is paid only for reasonable expenses. The Surrogacy Arrangements Act 1985 prohibits commercial brokers and advertising; the HFEA regulates fertility clinics involved. Couples and individuals can use surrogacy arrangements within these constraints.
Who has parental responsibility at birth?
The surrogate has parental responsibility at birth. If she is married, her spouse may also have it. The intended parents acquire parental responsibility via the Parental Order. Between birth and the Parental Order, the intended parents have practical care of the child but not legal parental responsibility; this can create complications for medical decisions, school enrolment, and other parental decisions during this interim period.
Can a Parental Order be refused?
Yes, if the court determines it is not in the child's welfare or if the legal criteria are not met. The court has discretion. Common reasons for refusal or delay include: surrogate not giving consent; expenses substantially exceeding reasonable; genetic relationship requirement not met; or the Parental Order would not be in the child's welfare for other reasons. In practice, the court is typically supportive of intended parents who have made genuine arrangements.
Are intended parents on the birth certificate?
Initially no. The surrogate is named on the birth certificate as the mother. After the Parental Order, a new birth certificate is issued naming the intended parents. The original birth certificate (with the surrogate as mother) is replaced; the new certificate is the legal birth record going forward.
Is health insurance affected?
Specific medical insurance arrangements vary. Private health insurance rarely covers surrogacy-related costs (for the intended parents). Insurance for the surrogate during pregnancy is typically through the NHS or her own arrangements. Some specialist surrogacy insurance products are available; the take-up is limited.
Can the surrogate change her mind after birth?
Yes, the surrogate has the legal right to refuse to hand over the child or refuse to consent to the Parental Order. The intended parents have no enforceable contractual right to the child. This is rare in practice but the legal position protects the surrogate's autonomy. If the surrogate refuses consent, the intended parents have very limited options.
Is altruistic surrogacy available without a clinic?
Some altruistic surrogacy arrangements are between people who know each other (such as a friend or relative serving as surrogate) without a fertility clinic. The HFEA regulates fertility treatment; arrangements that don't involve clinic-based fertility treatment may fall outside HFEA regulation. Specialist legal advice on such arrangements is essential because the legal complexity can be significant.
Frequently asked questions
Is surrogacy legal in the UK?
Surrogacy is legal but commercial surrogacy (paying more than reasonable expenses) is prohibited. The legal framework supports altruistic surrogacy where the surrogate is paid only for reasonable expenses. The Surrogacy Arrangements Act 1985 prohibits commercial brokers and advertising; the HFEA regulates fertility clinics involved. Couples and individuals can use surrogacy arrangements within these constraints.
Who has parental responsibility at birth?
The surrogate has parental responsibility at birth. If she is married, her spouse may also have it. The intended parents acquire parental responsibility via the Parental Order. Between birth and the Parental Order, the intended parents have practical care of the child but not legal parental responsibility; this can create complications for medical decisions, school enrolment, and other parental decisions during this interim period.
Can a Parental Order be refused?
Yes, if the court determines it is not in the child's welfare or if the legal criteria are not met. The court has discretion. Common reasons for refusal or delay include: surrogate not giving consent; expenses substantially exceeding reasonable; genetic relationship requirement not met; or the Parental Order would not be in the child's welfare for other reasons. In practice, the court is typically supportive of intended parents who have made genuine arrangements.
Are intended parents on the birth certificate?
Initially no. The surrogate is named on the birth certificate as the mother. After the Parental Order, a new birth certificate is issued naming the intended parents. The original birth certificate (with the surrogate as mother) is replaced; the new certificate is the legal birth record going forward.
Is health insurance affected?
Specific medical insurance arrangements vary. Private health insurance rarely covers surrogacy-related costs (for the intended parents). Insurance for the surrogate during pregnancy is typically through the NHS or her own arrangements. Some specialist surrogacy insurance products are available; the take-up is limited.
Can the surrogate change her mind after birth?
Yes, the surrogate has the legal right to refuse to hand over the child or refuse to consent to the Parental Order. The intended parents have no enforceable contractual right to the child. This is rare in practice but the legal position protects the surrogate's autonomy. If the surrogate refuses consent, the intended parents have very limited options.
Is altruistic surrogacy available without a clinic?
Some altruistic surrogacy arrangements are between people who know each other (such as a friend or relative serving as surrogate) without a fertility clinic. The HFEA regulates fertility treatment; arrangements that don't involve clinic-based fertility treatment may fall outside HFEA regulation. Specialist legal advice on such arrangements is essential because the legal complexity can be significant.
Sources
- https://www.gov.uk/legal-rights-when-using-surrogates-and-donors
- https://www.legislation.gov.uk/ukpga/2008/22/contents
- https://www.hfea.gov.uk/
- https://www.gov.uk/government/organisations/cafcass
- https://www.gov.uk/adoption-pay-leave
- https://www.gov.uk/legal-rights-when-using-surrogates-and-donors
- https://www.legislation.gov.uk/ukpga/2008/22/contents
- https://surrogacyuk.org/